Sex becomes transactional when access, affection, money, chores or peace start being traded. Learn how to restore consent and mutual desire.
Relationships contain exchange.
You do things for each other.
You compromise.
You contribute.
That is normal.
Sex becomes transactional when intimacy starts functioning like currency.
"I did this, so you owe me."
"If you want sex, earn it."
"If I sleep with you, will you stop being angry?"
"If I pay for everything, I should not have to beg."
The rest of this guide goes beyond the headline idea. It takes you into the patterns, questions and practical decisions that help you apply this to your own relationship.
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