Personal readiness
Before I Start Dating
Explore what you want, what you can offer, and the boundaries and choices you want to make before beginning a relationship.
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Start this assessment Relationship Assessments
Know where you actually stand before you decide.
Serious relationship decisions deserve more than a gut feeling. Each assessment helps you surface the conversations, assumptions and pressure points worth understanding before you move forward.
Designed to give you
A practical 0–100 conversation clarity index
A clearly explained interpretation, not a prediction
A practical next conversation, not just a label
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Should We Move In Together?
5-Minute Relationship Readiness Assessment
25 quick questions. A personalised Readiness Score from 0–100. A clear result band. Free.
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Your Readiness Score
One score. Four meaningful result bands.
0–100Your result is not a verdict on your relationship. It shows how much important information is clear, unclear or still being avoided.
PauseDiscussClarifyMove Forward
0–39
Do Not Move In Yet
40–59
Too Many Unanswered Questions
60–79
Ready, But Talk First
80–100
Ready to Move Forward
The useful part is not the number. It is the conversation the number tells you to have.
Explore more decisions
Seven more assessments you can complete today.
Each includes 25 questions, an immediate 0–100 conversation clarity index, five subject scores and practical suggestions for what to discuss next. No email or account is required. Your individual answers are not saved.
Commitment clarity
Before We Get Engaged
A proposal is a moment. Engagement is a period of decisions. Examine the partnership you are preparing to create.
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Start this assessment Marriage decisions
Before We Get Married
The wedding day is not the daily marriage. Examine the agreements that will shape your ordinary life together.
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Start this assessment Financial conversations
Can We Talk About Money?
Explore the conversations that help you understand each other's money habits, practical obligations and financial plans.
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Start this assessment Trust and repair
How Clear Are Our Trust Boundaries?
Trust is not a demand for access to another person's life. Explore expectations, privacy, repair and the safety of speaking honestly.
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Start this assessment Parenthood decisions
Should We Have Children Together?
Having children is not a question another person's enthusiasm can answer for you. Explore the practical, emotional and ethical decisions involved.
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Start this assessment Decision clarity
Should I Stay or Leave?
A score cannot decide whether to stay in a relationship. Use these questions to identify what you know, what you need and where support may help.
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Start this assessment Understanding your score: These are author-created educational checklists, not validated clinical or psychometric tests. A higher score means you report having considered more of the topics. It does not guarantee compatibility, readiness, safety or a specific relationship outcome. Read the assessment methodology.