Free Relationship Assessment

Should We Move In Together?

5-Minute Relationship Readiness Assessment

25 quick questions. A personalised Readiness Score from 0–100. A clear result band. Free.

Before you begin

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What this is measuring

The Should We Move In Together? assessment is a free 5-minute diagnostic that gives you a Relationship Readiness Score from 0 to 100, plus a personalised result band and recommended next steps.

Your score is calculated from 25 practical questions covering finances, conflict patterns, future alignment, household expectations, and emotional readiness. You will receive your score by email, along with a tailored recommendation from Evan Evans.

This is not a compatibility test. It is a decision-readiness test — designed to surface what you have and have not yet talked through before you sign a lease, share a mortgage, or merge your daily lives.

Answer for the relationship you actually have, not the relationship you hope to have.

Your private assessment

Should We Move In Together?

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What you'll receive

Your Readiness Score, explained.

The number is only useful when you understand what it is pointing to. Each result band comes with context and a recommended next conversation.

0–39

Do Not Move In Yet

There are too many unanswered questions between you and your partner to make this decision well right now. That is not a verdict on your relationship — it is information. Use this window to have the conversations before you share a front door.

Do not rush the move. Start with the seven conversations couples most often skip, then use the 25 Conversations workbook to work through the unresolved areas together before you make a housing commitment.

40–59

Too Many Unanswered Questions

You are on the way — but several core areas (often money, conflict, or future alignment) still have open questions. These are exactly the questions that turn into friction after move-in day. Surface them now.

You have too many unanswered questions to rely on hope. Work through the 25 Conversations workbook together before you sign anything.

60–79

Ready, But Talk First

You have done a lot of the foundational work. The remaining conversations are smaller but worth having before the move — particularly around household roles, money mechanics, and conflict repair.

You are close, but the remaining gaps deserve explicit agreements. Use the 25 Conversations workbook to finish the conversations before the move.

80–100

Ready to Move Forward

Your answers suggest you have discussed many important areas. Keep checking how your agreements work in everyday life. This score does not predict how your relationship will turn out.

Your readiness is strong. Go deeper with Things I Wish Someone Told Me Before Moving In so the practical agreements survive real life after the move.

25 Conversations Before Moving In Together

After the Assessment

Turn the result into a real conversation.

25 Conversations Before Moving In Together

Your result email will include a tailored recommendation. The 25 Conversations workbook is a structured companion to this assessment, with space to record your answers and shared agreements.

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