Make better relationship decisions before they cost you years of your life.
Start with the decision in front of you. Take the free Move-In Readiness Assessment, then use practical books and workbooks to have the conversations that matter before the lease, before the wedding, and before the years you can't get back.
New: Try the free 5-day Move-In Clarity Challenge
"The conversation is the relationship."
- Evan Evans
Should We Move In Together?
The 5-Minute Relationship Readiness Assessment.
25 practical questions. Get a personalised Readiness Score from 0 to 100, a clear result band, and recommended next steps sent to your email.
0–39
Do Not Move In Yet
40–59
Too Many Unanswered Questions
60–79
Ready, But Talk First
80–100
Strong Readiness
Digital Workbook
$25
The Flagship Workbook
25 Conversations Before Moving In Together.
The couples workbook for the questions you need to answer before sharing a home.
A 64-page guided PDF that walks you and your partner through 25 structured conversations covering money, conflict, intimacy, household, family, and the future. Each conversation includes a framing essay, guided questions, journaling space for both partners, and a decisions-to-capture summary.
- 64 pages, print-ready PDF
- 25 structured conversations
- Journaling space for both partners
- Decisions-to-capture summaries
The Series
The Things I Wish Someone Told Me series.
A growing book series. One relationship decision per title, with practical conversations to help you think through the next step.
Things I Wish Someone Told Me Before I Got Married
marriage
25 Conversations Before Moving In Together
Moving In Together
Things I Wish Someone Told Me Before Moving In
dating
Things I Wish Someone Told Me Before I Started Dating
Things I Wish Someone Told Me Before I Fell in Love
dating
Relationship Library
More Relationship Books & Guides
Standalone books, workbooks and practical guides for relationships, personal growth and better decisions.
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The Blueprint of Self
Understand what shaped you, recognise what still drives you, and decide what deserves authority over your life now. A practical framework for moving from the Inherited, Adapted and Performed Self toward the Chosen Self.
The Method
How the system works.
A simple five-step method that turns relationship decisions from drift into deliberate work.
Assess
Take a free 5-minute assessment. Get a personalised score and a clear picture of where the unanswered questions are.
Understand
Receive a tailored result band - what it means, what to focus on, and what most couples in your position get wrong.
Talk
Use the workbooks and guided conversations to surface the questions you have not yet asked each other.
Decide
Make the decision - move in, marry, stay, leave - with full information instead of drift and assumption.
Grow
Use the courses and membership to deepen the skills most couples never build - repair, money, conflict.
Evan Evans
Author · Relationship Educator
About
The author behind the series.
Evan Evans is an author, relationship educator, and coach. After years watching smart, well-meaning couples walk into the same preventable frictions around money, conflict, family, intimacy, and the future, he began writing the books he wished someone had handed him.
The Things I Wish Someone Told Me series is the result: one decision per book, one conversation per chapter, no romance, no fluff, just the structured questions that predict whether a relationship will deepen or quietly erode.
Evan writes for the version of you that is about to make a major relationship decision and would rather have the conversation now than the regret later.
Membership
Your relationship learning library.
Premium Reads, guided decision paths, workbooks and practical conversation tools in one growing library. Review the current Academy offering before subscribing.
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$29/mo
Annual
$290/yr
- Premium reading library
- Guided workbooks and practical tools
- New material as published
- Member-only articles
- Guided relationship decision paths
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Free Resource
Not ready to buy? Start with the free assessment.
The Should We Move In Together? assessment takes five minutes, gives you a personalised Readiness Score from 0 to 100, and emails you a tailored recommendation. No card. No spam. Just clarity.