Make better relationship decisions before they cost you years of your life.
Practical books, assessments, workbooks and courses designed to help you have the conversations most couples wish they had earlier — before the lease, before the wedding, before the years you can't get back.
"The conversation is the relationship."
— Evan Evans
Section 01 — Start Here
Start with the decision in front of you.
Every major relationship decision has its own questions, its own costs, and its own moment. Pick the one in front of you right now.
Moving In Together
The decision that quietly changes everything.
Getting Married
Before the wedding, not after the divorce.
Money
The conversation most couples skip.
Trust
What it really requires — and what breaks it.
Children
The single biggest yes-or-no in a life.
Commitment
What you are actually agreeing to.
Staying or Leaving
The hardest decision — made with clarity.
Section 04 — The Series
The Things I Wish Someone Told Me series.
Twenty titles. One decision per book. Each one written to give you the conversations, frameworks, and clarity most couples never get — at the exact moment you need them.
Section 05 — Courses
Don't just read the conversation. Work through it.
Structured video courses that take you and your partner through the conversations — guided by Evan Evans, with real couple examples, repair tools, and a clear decision framework.
Section 06 — The Method
How the system works.
A simple five-step method that turns relationship decisions from drift into deliberate work.
Assess
Take a free 5-minute assessment. Get a personalised score and a clear picture of where the unanswered questions are.
Understand
Receive a tailored result band — what it means, what to focus on, and what most couples in your position get wrong.
Talk
Use the workbooks and guided conversations to surface the questions you have not yet asked each other.
Decide
Make the decision — move in, marry, stay, leave — with full information instead of drift and assumption.
Grow
Use the courses and membership to deepen the skills most couples never build — repair, money, conflict.
Evan Evans
Author · Relationship Educator
Section 07 — About
The author behind the series.
Evan Evans is an author, relationship educator, and coach. After years watching smart, well-meaning couples walk into the same preventable frictions — around money, conflict, family, intimacy, and the future — he began writing the books he wished someone had handed him.
The Things I Wish Someone Told Me series is the result: one decision per book, one conversation per chapter, no romance, no fluff — just the structured questions that predict whether a relationship will deepen or quietly erode.
Evan writes for the version of you that is about to make a major relationship decision — and would rather have the conversation now than the regret later.
Section 09 — Free Resource
Not ready to buy? Start with the free assessment.
The Should We Move In Together? assessment takes five minutes, gives you a personalised Readiness Score from 0 to 100, and emails you a tailored recommendation. No card. No spam. Just clarity.