When the relationship decision is too important to keep guessing.
Work privately with Evan Evans to slow the decision down, say what has not been said, understand what is really at stake and decide what happens next with greater clarity.
This Is Not Generic Advice
We work on the decision in front of you.
The Things I Wish Someone Told Me approach is built around the conversations people often postpone until the consequences are expensive. Coaching brings that work into your real situation.
What People Bring Into The Room
The moments where love alone is not enough information.
You do not need a perfect relationship story before you ask for help. You need a real question, a willingness to look at it properly and enough honesty to stop pretending the difficult part will solve itself.
Not Sure What You Need?
Find your coaching path before you spend a dollar.
Answer a few private questions about what you are facing, how complex it feels and how much support you want. You will get a suggested starting path immediately. No email is required to see the result.
Find Your Coaching Path
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Before we begin, is anyone in immediate danger or dealing with threats, violence, coercive control or a mental-health crisis?
This helps us keep coaching in the right lane. Coaching is not emergency or safeguarding support.
No email required to see your result.
Choose The Level Of Support
Clear offers. Clear scope. No mystery about what you are buying.
Start with one decision or choose a programme when the work needs more time. All sessions are private and online. Prices are shown in US dollars for international consistency.
One clear decision
Relationship Decision Session
One 90-minute private session
For one specific relationship decision that needs focused thinking now. Come alone or together. We slow the decision down, identify what is really at stake, surface the conversations that have been avoided and leave with a clear next step.
- Pre-session intake and decision brief
- 90-minute private online session
- For an individual or a couple
- Clear actions and questions to take forward
- Relevant reading or reflection recommendations
Six weeks of focused work
Relationship Clarity Programme
Four private sessions over 6 weeks
For a relationship issue that is bigger than one conversation. We work through the patterns, decisions and difficult conversations in a structured sequence so you stop circling the same questions and start making progress.
- Four 60-minute private online sessions
- Structured intake and relationship focus plan
- Action plan after each stage of the work
- Private client workspace through CoachForge
- Goal and progress tracking between sessions
- Selected exercises from the Things I Wish Someone Told Me framework
Deep private support
Private Relationship Intensive
Eight private sessions over 10–12 weeks
For a major relationship decision, transition or rebuilding season where several issues are connected. This is the deepest level of private work and gives us enough time to address the decision, the conversations around it and the habits that need to change afterward.
- Eight 60-minute private online sessions
- Individual or couple format
- Personalised relationship decision roadmap
- CoachForge client workspace and progress tracking
- Structured between-session reflection work
- Priority scheduling within the programme
- Final next-stage plan at completion
How It Works
A clear process from first question to next move.
The work is structured enough to keep momentum without turning your relationship into a project-management exercise. The coaching practice is managed through CoachForge so scheduling, goals, action items and follow-up stay organised.
Find the right level of support
Use the Coaching Path Finder or choose a package directly. The goal is to match the depth of support to the size of the issue.
Complete the private intake
Before we meet, you set out the decision, the history that matters and what you want to be different by the end of the work.
Work the real issue
Sessions focus on what is actually happening, not vague relationship advice. We separate facts, fears, assumptions, expectations and choices.
Leave with a next move
Every engagement is designed to end in greater clarity, stronger conversations and specific actions you understand and own.
Built From The Same Framework
The books ask the questions. Coaching helps you work through your answers.
Coaching connects directly to the Things I Wish Someone Told Me series. Dating, moving in, engagement, marriage, trust, children, blended families, separation and starting again all sit inside one decision-focused framework.
A Clear Boundary
Coaching is not therapy or crisis intervention.
Coaching is designed for decision-making, communication, goals and forward action. It is not psychotherapy, mental-health treatment, emergency support, legal advice or specialist safeguarding. When safety or crisis is involved, specialist local support comes first.
Questions Before You Begin
Know what you are stepping into.
Do both people have to attend?
No. Relationship decisions often begin with one person needing clarity. I work with individuals and couples. If you attend as a couple, both voices are treated as equally important to the process.
Will you tell us whether to stay together or leave?
No. The work is designed to help you see the decision more clearly, ask better questions and understand the consequences of the available choices. The final decision remains yours.
What if I do not know which coaching package I need?
Use the Coaching Path Finder on this page. It asks about the size of the issue, how long it has been present, what outcome you want and how much follow-through would help. It then suggests a starting path.
Is this only for relationships in crisis?
No. Some of the best coaching happens before the crisis. Dating, moving in, engagement, marriage, money and family decisions are easier to work through before resentment or urgency takes over.
Do you work internationally?
Yes. Sessions are online and are designed for clients in different countries and time zones. Prices are shown in US dollars so the offer stays simple across markets.
How is the coaching managed?
The practice is managed through CoachForge. Scheduling, client information, goals, action items and session follow-up stay organised in one private coaching workspace.
Is relationship coaching therapy?
No. Coaching is forward-looking, educational and decision-focused. It is not psychotherapy, mental-health treatment, crisis support, legal advice or a substitute for specialist safeguarding services.
Work With Evan Evans
You do not need to know the perfect answer before you ask for help.
Start with the Path Finder if you are unsure. If you already know what you need, choose a coaching option and tell me what you are facing.