Being sexually available is not the same as feeling desired. Many couples have access to each other but lose the experience of being actively wanted.
A person can say yes to sex and still leave their partner feeling undesired.
That is because availability and desire answer different questions.
Availability says:
"I am willing."
Desire says:
"I want you."
Both matter.
For some couples, the gap between them becomes painful.
You share a bed.
The rest of this guide goes beyond the headline idea. It takes you into the patterns, questions and practical decisions that help you apply this to your own relationship.
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