Engagement is useful when it becomes a period of serious preparation rather than a countdown to a wedding. Use it to test the promises before making them permanent.
Engagement can become a strange period.
People spend months choosing colours, venues, food and photographs.
Meanwhile the marriage itself receives fewer hours of planning than the reception.
Engagement is valuable because it creates a defined period between intention and promise.
Use it.
Engagement means the relationship is moving toward marriage.
That changes the standard.
The question is no longer only:
"Are we happy?"
The rest of this guide goes beyond the headline idea. It takes you into the patterns, questions and practical decisions that help you apply this to your own relationship.
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