A structured stay-or-leave audit covering safety, trust, respect, effort, compatibility, repair, intimacy, identity, future plans and the practical realities of both choices.
A stay-or-leave decision is rarely one decision.
It is usually several questions tangled together:
Do I still love them?
Can I trust them?
Do I want the same future?
Am I exhausted or finished?
Are we in a hard season or a broken system?
Am I afraid to leave, or do I actually want to stay?
Would the relationship change if both of us changed, or am I waiting for a version of us that has never existed?
That is why this audit exists.
The rest of this guide goes beyond the headline idea. It takes you into the patterns, questions and practical decisions that help you apply this to your own relationship.
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