Every couple has unwritten rules. Problems begin when each person is living by a different invisible contract and assuming the other agreed.
Relationships contain contracts nobody remembers signing.
One person thinks, "If we are serious, we tell each other where we are."
The other thinks, "If we trust each other, I should not have to report my movements."
One person thinks, "Once we live together, money becomes ours."
The other thinks, "My salary is still my salary."
Both people can believe their rule is obvious.
That is how an invisible contract is born.
Most expectations come from somewhere.
Family.
The rest of this guide goes beyond the headline idea. It takes you into the patterns, questions and practical decisions that help you apply this to your own relationship.
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