A child rejecting a new partner does not automatically mean the relationship is wrong. The adults need to understand loyalty, grief, pace and boundaries without making the child responsible for the couple.
A child can dislike a parent's new partner for reasons that have little to do with the new partner's character.
They may fear replacement.
They may hope their parents reunite.
They may resent losing private time.
They may dislike new rules.
They may simply need longer.
Their feelings matter.
They should not be given responsibility for deciding the adult relationship.
Even when a separation was necessary, a child may have lost:
The rest of this guide goes beyond the headline idea. It takes you into the patterns, questions and practical decisions that help you apply this to your own relationship.
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