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Can We Talk About Money?

Explore the conversations that help you understand each other's money habits, practical obligations and financial plans.

25 questions, five subjectsImmediate conversation clarity indexNo email required; answers not stored

What this measures: How thoroughly you feel you have explored the subjects below. It does not measure your worth, diagnose any condition, predict relationship outcomes, or decide what you should do. A topic can be discussed and still be unsafe or unsuitable. If you experience threats, fear or controlling behaviour, prioritise independent specialist support over a score.

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Financial reality

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Know what exists today

Choose the answer closest to your current situation, not the answer you hope will be true later.

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Question 1: How clearly have you considered what you each earn and how stable that income is?
Question 2: How clearly have you considered the debts, repayments and legal obligations each of you carry?
Question 3: How clearly have you considered how much you each save and what those savings are for?
Question 4: How clearly have you considered any financial responsibilities to relatives or children?
Question 5: How clearly have you considered whether you can speak truthfully about money without fear?

Answer all five questions to continue.

How scoring works: Each of the 25 answers contributes 0 to 4 points to a self-reported conversation clarity index out of 100. It is not a validated diagnostic, a compatibility score or advice to stay, leave, marry or have children.

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